Well Hi there so everyone knows we are BACK !!!, Gramps
here. we went to Florida for the month of Feb. stayed in
Venice, Had a fine time, got home about hte 3rd of March
Took two weeks to read all our mail and the B B. (thats
blessed blog) . Started packing for a trip to Tenn. went
to the Grand ole Opry, stayed two nights in the VERY PLUSH
Ryman Hotel, with our Driver and his wife Barbara Grace,
then went to Dr. Vander Veens residence for two nights and
enjoyed our Family, Kids, Grandkids, & Great grandkids.
Then returned to our Wonderful Home to see the Flowers in
bloom Daffidills, crocus (sp) and green grass.
What a WORLD !!! We leave again in May for a trip to
lancaster Penn. with Dick & Dolores Moore to see the
Stage productions , by Bus a real old folks vacation.
Love and Prayers Gramps & Gramma T.B. O.G.I.G.
Saturday, March 31, 2007
The latest news
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Friday, March 30, 2007
hello again,
So last week was awesome out. so Jason and I decided to take the Harley out for a drive. It so nice. We start on our house this weekend, Andy is coming over to dig the hole for us. Praise God we're starting. Last week i woke up to Eli holding a waffle in my face saying he was hungery at 6:30 in the morn'n. I told him he was not aloud to go in the fridge without asking when i was sleeping. anywho i got made him breakfast, he said he was sorry. Then he says " I was brave though" crack me up. He comes up with some funny sayings some times. So he's turning 4 in May Lily is 7 months now saying daaa daaa to which Jason loves. But i do have one question to the moms: we have been going through some rough times with eli. Everytime we say something he does not like or want to do he start crying and throwing a fit. Or when it's time to go to bed it's always I"m not tired i don't want to and the crying agian.? Any suggestions that would be wonderful. I don't know if there's something were not giving him that he's needing maybe i don't know. But i am at the end of my rope with how to handle it. love to all and happy trails.
audrey
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Wednesday, March 28, 2007
A New Goal Accomplished... Almost
Today I am busy but craving adult conversation. So I thought I would post a blog about my latest endeavor in the athletic realm. I love setting new workout goals and pushing myself past my limits. Last summer I trained for a minitriathlon. It was a mini, mini but was challenging me. I had a fear of water and had a tough time swimming out to the diving dock at the cottage. (I know... pathetic!) So I swam 300 yds, biked 6 miles, and ran 3 miles. It was really fun. This winter I was looking for another challenge. Thanks to a convincing sister, I decided to train for the 5th, 3rd Run in May. They have a 25K run which is around 15 miles. I ran track in high school and even in college a bit but I WAS A SPRINTER. That means that anything over a mile is LONG distance to us. The 3 mile run for my minitri was tough enough. So this was a huge goal. I committed to training for it but have waited to actually make the commitment to run it. This is mostly due to the time commitment it takes to actually train for the long runs. Well, yesterday I ran 10 miles. I was so proud of myself. I actually teared up a bit! It is funny when you accomplish something that you realize you didn't actually believe you could do. I had hoped I could push myself enough to do it but I guess deep down I had some serious doubts. I am really sore today but it was SO worth it. So now I am announcing to the world that I am going to run the entire race... the whole 15 miles. I am pretty excited and really enjoyed my run yesterday. I am at the point now where I can run 3-5 miles and it is fun. That is pretty sweet. Just thought I would add another interesting realm to the blogging world. Hope everyone is having a wonderful day! Adios!
~Jen
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Springtails
Here's the lastest bug we've discovered up here in Traverse City....after talking to a very nice gentleman at Colliers Pest Control we're a little more at ease. He said they're called springtails or snow fleas but I prefer springtails! We found these little black 'specks' in our basement around the door leading outside and then on Monday when the weather was fabulous we were horrified to find them COVERING the foundation of our house. Kinda like a pile of ants that once you crouch down and really start looking they're EVERYWHERE.....EEWWW!!! I did some research online just now and found out that they're probably found in your backyard too! (see we don't get all the nasty critters!) Here's a short blerp on what I found...ya never know folks, this could be one of those 'useless facts' that might just come in handy some day! Luke you might actually enjoy this one!
Here goes:
Most of us have never noticed snow fleas, unique little creatures that are really very common, and right under our noses. Here's how to find them.
On a warm, sunny winter day, take a look at the base of a tree where the snow may have melted down to expose some leaves, or where the snow is shallow or hollowed out just a bit. There you'll find a sprinkling of what looks like "pepper" or "ashes" on the surface of the snow. Snow fleas are actually tiny insects which come out on warm, sunny days to eat decayed plant material or sap oozing from the tree. They hop around acting like fleas and that's where they get their name, snow "fleas." They're not fleas though, but actually an arthropod called Collembola (kol-LEM-bo-la) or commonly called springtails which measure about 1/8 inch (2mm) long.
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Tuesday, March 27, 2007
Blah Blah Blah...
SOOO Kim here again! I'm downstairs on the computer doing my daily check for any new posts! I felt like writing a little something, about nothing in particular really....just felt like writing! We had the Thelen family up for a visit last weekend - the weather could've cooperated a little better but it didn't rain so at least we got to get outside for the fresh 'hair' as Makayla calls it! =) We went to the Platte River Hatchery to check out the fish for all the guys (although us girls liked it too!). We discovered a whole section of the hatchery that we've never seen before and I've been there 3 times before! Hello...I know my blode roots are showing but are they really THAT bad?!? The guys got a chance to putz around with the GPS looking for lakes while the 2 little ones slept which gave Bren and I some peace & quiet too! Ahh...always love a little R & R! Then we ordered out at Chili's and went to Moomers for ice cream! Moomers is a local place....it's right on a dairy farm and they make all their own ice cream. It really is probably the best ice cream I've ever tasted!! Makayla ate her 'Supermoo' down in about 3 bites and kept saying all night 'that was very very very good ice cream!' =)
I just got done baking a batch of choc chip cookies for my sweetie to take with him as he heads up to Newberry in the U.P. tomorrow for work. He'll be gone for 3 days so again Makayla and I will have to conjure up new adventures and make special memories of our own. It gets lonely, yes, but it's funny how when it's just the two of us we always end up having that special mommy/daughter time. I try so hard not to take that for granted even though some days I feel like pulling my hair out!! =) Time invested in your kids is ALWAYS worth the return!! =) On that note I'll bid you farewell! Have a blessed week and don't forget to be thankful for everything you have, no matter how small. Life is to be treasured.... Love you all!
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Monday, March 26, 2007
Is Anyone Else In Heaven?
I just had to post a very quick note to see if anyone else is in heaven with this weather!!! Of course, this won't be long because I have to get back in the sunshine. But I am so blessed by the sunshine and warmth I had to say, "Thank You Jesus!" I keep telling myself that it is only March and it probably won't last but while it is here we are loving it!! Enjoy!
~Jen
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more love from aunt katie
These are professional pictures that Robin and Ben had done of Avary and I don't know if they got a chance to share them with you. So I thought I would. These are only a few, but sweet precious Avary looks so cute.
Love her auntie Katie
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Aunts who love their nephews and nieces
I was getting bored of just looking at our old entries....so I posted a picture of hunter and kendall. Nothing likes little kids smiles. I wish more then anything that they lived right next to me.
Love their aunt katie
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We need some excitement for this monday!!

This is Hunter and Kendall, bath time!!!Kendall has such a precious smile.
Miss my little honeys, good thing I will be home in MI in a few days for a little vacation!!!
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Thursday, March 22, 2007
changes
WOW! I am so impressed with this family of mine. Not one day has gone by where there wasn't something new to read about. Thank you to everyone for contributing, and for you new "bloggers" out there, welcome!
I personally have news of my own. Today I changed my major. It's not that I don't want to be a nurse anymore or that I don't think that I can do it, I've just been realizing that I need to pursue the passions of my heart and that for me is photography. I have written about the nitty gritty details on my blog. Thanks for all of your prayers as Jason and I are up here figuring things out!
~love you Stacey
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Aaron & Barbara and the boys
Hello Everyone,
I do believe this is the first post from us, I tried once a while ago and hit a wrong key and lost it all. I'm back though to do this again, I've got so much to say so I'll just give you a little at a time.
Things are going wonderful here in Hudsonville, we've been staying so busy with church and work and wrestling. The boys have had a little wrestling clinic 2 nights a week for the last month (they have been really liking it. They will be done on Monday wrestling and then will start little league T-Ball in about 2 wks.
God is doing such wonderful things at church, He is on the move growing and stretching us. Barb has stepped up and is heading up a new ministry at our church called the Care Cupboard. She will be keeping it organized and keep up on the inventory, the goal is to expand on our food drives so we will have items in hand to help meet needs on a constant basis. So I am so proud of her for stepping out of her shell to do this, I know God will bless what she is doing.
We are also starting a small group at our house on Sundays for married couples, us and one other couple will be leading it so pray that God will touch lives. I also have a mens group that meets over here on Monday nights so we have been keeping busy.
We finally are just about done with our basement, the drop ceiling is in and we just got our new carpet in on Saturday( it's so soft) and I moved our main entry door to come into our fireplace room now so we can have more room to get in and actully have an entry. So things are looking a little different around here but we are almost done, just a little painting.
Well that will be it for now, till next time love ya all.
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ANSWER TO JENS ?
Hello Jen I didn't know how to respond to your question so i thought i would do a post Yes i am still doing massages so to you OR ANY ONE WANTS ONE :) let me know i have myspace ( under audrey eisen )if you wanna contact me or email is milesofsunshine@yahoo.com or my number is 262.4428. please don't feel you need to call just so u have the info if you ever want one. love to all if any one can tel me how to respond to a question without posting something let me know pleaseeeeee. well im off to go play with eli outside it 's so nice out can;t wait for summer. man i could go onand on typing. I love it but i won't bore you all who reads :) I LOVE THIS FAMILY WE R SO GREAT. so ........... different might i say ok really i'll go now lol
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Don't You Love How God Made Children?
I thought I would share a cute kid story. I love to see into the minds of my children. They are truly amazing when I take the time to learn how they think. I am continually shocked to discover how much they can actually comprehend, at all ages!
The other day the girls and I were discussing my grandpa dying. I told Tori and Elli that God had given me a picture of my grandpa and grandma in heaven. They were living with Jesus, worshipping and dancing and having so much fun. Tori just sat there quietly thinking. Then she asked me, "Mommy, does that mean that they live in my heart?" What an amazing connection to make! I had told them that my grandparents live with Jesus and she knew Jesus was in her heart. I never thought about that connection.
As we continued the discussion, Elli's wheels were turning also. Of course, in typical Elli fashion she was in a completely different area of thought. She says to me, "Mommy when I go to heaven, I think there is going to be a big blankie for me." I had to laugh. The one thing that both my girls hold very dear is their blankies. So of course, Jesus would have to have a big blankie for them. Or it just wouldn't be paradise! :) Gotta love kids!
~ Jen
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Wednesday, March 21, 2007
Our Valentines picture taken at Crazy Horse Restaraunt
Well, I figured out how to scan this in for you all. I know, it's a little crooked; just tilt your head.
I planted broccoli & pepper seeds to start in the house today; I did my tomato seeds a few days ago. It's a little late but I was waiting for new seeds that I'd ordered. Every spring I just can't wait to start planning my garden and being able to finally get outside. Uncle Doug trimmed all the raspberry canes from last year last week; we have to do the old asparagus yet too and uncover the strawbery plants soon. YUM, fresh picked strawberries,raspberries, asparagus, beans, tomatoes, broc, cucumbers, peppers, squashes; I can't wait! The chickens got let outside today for the first time this spring. They are very excited because it's very nasty in the chicken coop after all winter. . . and cleaning the chicken coop is another upcoming fun job. Any volunteers to help? I could share alittle of that lovely ckicken poop with you (if there's any fellow gardeners out there). It sure makes the garden grow better (if you let it age for a year first, it's very hot).
On that note I'll get going. :-)
Love you all, A. Rachel
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Tuesday, March 20, 2007
THE TINY HANDS
THE HANDS BELONG TO MY DAUGHTER LILY AND I (AUDREY) SORRY I DIDN'T SAY WHO
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Gathering Point: the eisens
Gathering Point: the eisens
Hello all again wow everybody has commented on my blog. yee haaa yes to your comment Aunt Renee I thought people would not know who we were
so that's why i decided to download pic. I love seeing everybodies messages. Ya know one thing that I read about in the blogs is how alot of the ladies
are building there men up complimenting them, telling them how thankful they are for them. I think that is awesome. What a great family we have
and what great teachers we've had to teach us. much love
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Monday, March 19, 2007
the eisens
Posted by all of the TerBeeks at 2:17 PM 5 comments
great news
with all of my love
-stacey
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Sunday, March 18, 2007
Hi Everyone, Just wondered if I'm the only one who needs Kleenex every time I read this site. If I read this at work I wonder what anyone who walks past must think... Boy she must be having a bad day!! Really, it is just so amazing the things that go on in this family and how good our God is, it just makes me cry!! Not that we don't have struggles, but we are a FAMILY!!! I guess the more I see and the older I get the more I realize just how unusual our gang is, and I am happy. So I guess it"s OK if I cry . It's so cool to SEE Katie's new car, Little Grannies being blessed, personal achievements like first solo flight announced. Thanks to everyone who keeps contributing, I'll just keep my Kleenex handy.
Speaking of crying, I got to see the smallest grandchild I have right now today when I checked my email. Kimberly had emailed the picture of her Thurs Ultrasound. Yep I cried.
Uncle Nick and I are leaving this Wed. for Tn. we're going to take Gram and Gramps TB with us to see Bradley and his family and do a little sight seeing as well.
Love you all Barbara Grace
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Need Kleenix
Hi Everyone, Just wondered if I'm the only one who needs Kleenex every time I read this site. If I read this at work I wonder what anyone who walks past must think... Boy she must be having a bad day!! Really, it is just so amazing the things that go on in this family and how good our God is, it just makes me cry!! Not that we don't have struggles, but we are a FAMILY!!! I guess the more I see and the older I get the more I realize just how unusual our gang is, and I am happy. So I guess it"s OK if I cry . It's so cool to SEE Katie's new car, Little Grannies being blessed, personal achievements like first solo flight announced. Thanks to everyone who keeps contributing, I'll just keep my Kleenex handy.
Speaking of crying, I got to see the smallest grandchild I have right now today when I checked my email. Kimberly had emailed the picture of her Thurs Ultrasound. Yep I cried.
Uncle Nick and I are leaving this Wed. for Tn. we're going to take Gram and Gramps TB with us to see Bradley and his family and do a little sight seeing as well.
Love you all Barbara Grace
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Passin The Time...
Kim here....just checkin the blog again for anything new and since there wasn't I thought I'd post a little something! Dan is busy muddin the drywall he got hung over the past week (can I hear a Hallelujah!?) and Makayla is busy catching "big fish" with her Barbie fishing pole! We've had a normal week, which was needed for us, and I feel like we're a family again. It's always a little tough when we're seperated (Dan was out of town and I was in Allendale) for a while.....as much as I love being at Mom and Dads it's always good to be home again as a family!
We're still on the look out for a new church, it's something I have on my "to do" list for the week. There's 2 places I want to call and get some more information before we check it out. It will be so nice to have this figured out and feel "home" again with a church. When we were in Allendale we went to GH Res Life and ohhhhh how good it felt to feel like we were REALLY in church again. It seems like since we've moved up here we haven't had that and I seriously miss it as does Dan. I felt like the service could've gone on all day long and it wouldn't have mattered a bit to me......it's amazing how when you're in a church that "gets it" and His presence can be felt it's just so peaceful and freeing really. So keep that in your prayers still when you think of it....there's got to be something that's meant for us up here somewhere! =)
I guess I'd better sign off....Makayla got up from her nap a few minutes ago and now is hungry so I'm gonna go raid the fridge for a snack. While I'm there I guess I might as well get me a little somethin too.... =) Love you all - remember as the weather is getting warmer, T.C. is a really nice place to come visit and we're a free hotel!
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Thursday, March 15, 2007



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Wednesday, March 14, 2007
Thank-you for your prayers
Dearest Ones. We are overwhelmed with the greatest & goodness of our great Big God. Ashton surgery went so very well, he is home , I just left him. You would never believe that he had heart surgery not even a week ago. He was sitting in his high chair & had a big grin on his face when I walked in. The surgeon said that Ashton was the only patient they ever had who wanted to sit up immediately after surgery. What a precious little guy. Thank-you to those of you who called to check & see how he was doing, and Barb & Rachel for bringing meals... and all the rest of the gang who prayed. We so appreciate you, thanks. Gramma has survived even though she always wears the same shirt & has turkey breath in the morning. Ya gotta love the honesty of our kids..... Our home will be shockingly quiet for the next few days. I might even take a nap. I love ya'll Aunt Donna
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Tuesday, March 13, 2007
Amazing Grace



Just wanted to share with all of you the difference one person can make for people thousands of miles away. Grandma TerBeek has been knitting like crazy this winter. The afghans were sent down to the Dominican Republic with our friends, the Bodenner's, who handed them out at the 'nursing home' (don't be thinking Brookcrest . . . not even remotely close) where they have no heat and it can get pretty chilly. Thank you Grandma TerBeek for being such a great example of how one person can bless others in their own very special way.~aunt renee (just wanted to clarify because you KNOW that Grandma would never blow her own horn . . . even if 7 little Dominican grandma's were warmer today because of her!)
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Monday, March 12, 2007
birthdays
I'm not sure if there are more birthdays than this, for this week and last week but i wanted to make sure that you are loved.
Last Saturday: 3/10 HAPPY BIRTHDAY TASHINA!
Yesterday: 3/11 HAPPY BIRTHDAY JEN VANDER VEEN!
Today: 3/12 HAPPY BIRTHDAY LEAH!
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Need your help...
http://www.jfci.org/pages/page.asp?page_id=9362
Please watch this video. Any of you connected to anyone, any organization, list of contacts or networks... I'm asking you to help me raise awareness for JFCI. I just met with the co-founder, Rob Morris, this evening...and literally what he and a handful of other people in the world are trying to do is abolish present day slavery in the form of child sex trafficking. And they need to raise awareness, raise funds to build safehouses, find people interested in managing safehouses, or be counselors. It's global. Over 17,000 children are trafficked into the USA alone. East Asia, Eastern Europe and West Africa are the global hotspots for this activity.
JFCI is an organization that thought before it acted. Everything is in place. They are ready to move and geared to handle the response. Please, let's be a family that responds to ending slavery. There are over 27 million slaves in the world today, and 2 million children annually are sold into slavery...either by abduction or being sold by their parents, mostly little girls, & most of them under the age of 6.
Please help in any way you can. Our family is all over, and with just our family alone we could do something pretty amazing to end this. We were gathered in a house this evening: all races, sizes, shapes, male, female, faiths and ages. It was really excruciating and exciting at the same time.
Love to all of you. Jennifer
ps. Personal update, I don't know whether I'm staying or leaving San Diego. I need to have a job this week. Please pray for the open door...and for the courage to walk through the door. I'll keep you posted.
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Friday, March 09, 2007
ashton's report
Donna just called and reported Ashton is out of surgery @11:30 the
report is the heart is working properly, the reason it is enlarging is because
of the restriction in his lower circulatory system, --- which they have corrected, the way they went into the heart, is under the arm (instead of
going into the chest from the front, much faster recovery, but very painful
soooo they will keep him sedated for probably three days while he recovers in i c u. please keep praying more later on his progress P.TL
Thanks O.G.I.G. Gramps
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Wednesday, March 07, 2007
arizona sunsets
Posted by all of the TerBeeks at 11:17 PM 9 comments
I didn´t fall off the end of the world....
Oooooook. So, it´s been awhile. :D Here´s what´s been going on in my life. First off, my Honduras experience. It was amazing! I loved being there and to be able to spend months with family after going for months without them...incredible. As you all know, Leah came to visit us and we had an awesome time. When she left, I began volunteering at the Hope Center and with the kindergarten classes at Tasha´s school. I fell in love with the HC kids! And with pretty much everyone from church. The kids in the pics up top are some of my favorites. From the left it´s Yeimy, Alex, and Hector. We had a water fight one day, but it was hilarious because the girls had no idea how to use the guns, and they didn´t like it very much. But the boys couldnt´get enough! The whole time was such an amazing experience for me that I´m going to be making a ¨pit stop¨ on my way home. In July I´ll leave here and head back to spend as much time as I can in Tegus before classes start again in the fall. Speaking of classes, I started classes here this week. So far they seem to be going well. I think that I´m taking Communication and Chilean Culture; Chilean Dialect; Chilean and Hispanic American Literature; 20th Century History through the Cinema; History and Geography of Chile; and Lectures of the Psalms. Hmm...I think I have some sort of theme with Chile or something. :) I really like my Culture class, there´s a good group of gringos and the prof seems really relaxed. He told me today that I´m Chilena. He meant that I speak with a Chilean accent and use their slang and such. It made my day! Starting last Friday night, my two ¨wingmen¨ (two friends from last semester who´ve stayed and we´ve been betting to know each other better) and I made a pact that we´re not goign to speak any English at all for teh rest of teh semester. Of course I can with all of you, but down here it´s all Spanish. So far we´ve done pretty good. There have been a few slips, but...I´ve already noticed an improvement, as have others. So it´s worth it. The big test though will be this weekend when we go to Pucón with the whole CIEE gang. It´s a 12 hour bus ride with 40-some gringos...I hope I can remember to speak Spanish despite the fact that I´ll be hearing mostly English. Before classes started though, one of my friends and I decided to go into ValparaÃso and get lost. Viña del Mar and ValparaÃso are sister cities, but Viña, where we live, is cleaner, richer, and in general more snobby. Valpo, where we go to school, on the other hand is dirtier, poorer, and has the best atmosphere. Last semester we spent most of our time in Viña because it was easier, so now we´re trying to make a point of getting to know Valpo. Anyway, we ended up at the ex-carcel. It´s an old prison that was used during Pinochet´s days to house political prisoners. Now it´s been converted into a cultural center of sorts where there´s amazing graffiiti artwork on the walls and the larger rooms are used for concerts and there´s even a theater. Anyway, we met the most adorable puppy. It made me want to take it home with me. So here he is sitting on my lap. ![]() So, to sum things up, I´m adjusting to being a student again while missing both of my homes. :) I love you all and I really do miss seeing everyone. Besitos! |
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Tuesday, March 06, 2007
Velderman Family Update
Posted by all of the TerBeeks at 5:45 PM 5 comments
Brown couple (bragging of course)
We Gramma & I are safely back from Florida and a fine time we did
have , the weather was GREAT!!! we had a very nice condo or unit--
on the beach in Venice Florida. we had company (namely) Ruth &
Sally, Dick & Dolores Moore, friends . we just did as we felt for the
Month of Feb. had good travel experience and fine accomadations
We just now have gotten through opening our mail and reading the
Blog and thought we would inform you wereBACK . we really enjoy
reading your lives on this thing ' YOU ARE AN AWESOME FAMILY
and we LOVE YOU ALL. BLESSINGS O.G.I.G. Gram & Gramps
Posted by all of the TerBeeks at 5:18 PM 5 comments
Hey Look! There's a New Post!
Hey everybody! I'm just wondering if you guys feel the same way I do? I check this blog pretty much every day, and I'm always hoping to see a new post pop up. I kinda feel like I won the lottery everytime I see one. I love reading about what you all are doing and feeling, so keep up the good work!
Mark
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Sunday, March 04, 2007
Saturday, March 03, 2007
A Goodbye...
Hey everyone! I just wanted to give you all a quick update and thank you all for your prayers. My grandpa passed away on Thursday. The wonderful answer to prayer is that my uncle did get home in time. To be honest, my grandpa really did have to fight for that to occur. But then an hour before my uncle got to the hospital, my grandpa stabilized. The next day his doctor said he actually thought he could recover. I had mixed feelings about that. He was ready to go. And it became more and more evident to us as a family that the end was near. He was stable through the rest of the day and then we were called to the hospital that night. Then he stabilized again. The next day there wasn't much change. My mom and my uncle had to make the difficult decision to take his oxygen mask off. It was what my grandpa had wanted. They gave him morphine so he wouldn't feel any pain. This was at 2:00 in the afternoon and they told us they didn't expect him to make it through the night. He was gone in twenty minutes.
Everyone is asking me how I am doing? To be honest, it has been a lot more difficult than I was expecting. I remember sitting next to him in the hospital holding his hand. There was this moment that I looked in his eyes... and I realized I had the same color eyes as him. I thought to myself, those are my eyes. I can not explain what I felt. A part of me was dying with him. This was the grandpa that always took us to get ice cream. He took me out to pizza more times than I can count. He was the man that everyone loved... wherever we went. He & my grandma loved each other so much that they secretly eloped and then went back to live at their parents house. They didn't tell anyone! (Can you imagine!) They were married for almost 50 years. He was such a spit fire and had all of us laughing in the hospital the entire time. He was a fighter. He was all of this, but most of all he was the grandpa that I was closest to. Sometimes I think you don't realize how much you love someone until they are gone. I don't have any regrets. My kids knew him. He knew I loved him. But even then, I didn't know I would have such a hole in my heart. My grandma used to tell my mom, Better to have loved and lost then to never have loved before. I think that sums it up. I am honored to know that I came from him. He was a fighter and he was strong. God told me he was one of his fighters. It is so cool to know that I come from that. We need to be speaking that into our families. Kim & Dan's kids can say the same. Aaron & Barb's kids can say the same. (And many other examples) There was a warrior that I could feel rise up in my spirit as I watched him and knew that I had that same spirit. Although the emotions have been high this week, the Lord spoke to me so clearly through many situations. As in any situation in life, the Lord was with us every step of the way. Now my grandpa is with Him... and my grandma. What more could I want for him?
Thanks for all your prayers! You are an awesome family!
Love, Jen
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