OK, LET ME TRY THIS AGAIN...I DON'T KNOW WHAT JUST HAPPENED....LINDY HERE..I JUST WANTED TO WISH YOU ALL A WONDERFUL AND BLESSED HOLIDAY SEASON. I HOPE YOU ALL HAD A GREAT THANKSGIVING! ADAM, ISABELLE AND I HAVE MUCH TO BE THANKFUL FOR THIS YEAR(AND EVERY YEAR FOR THAT MATTER) BUT WE JUST WANTED TO JOIN IN THE FUN OF ''GROWING BLUEBERRIES" AS KURT AND LISA PUT IT AND GROW ONE OF OUR OWN. YES, WE ARE ALSO EXPECTING AGAIN...A MONTH AFTER KURT AND LISA AND FIVE DAYS BEFORE MATT AND COURTNEY...WHAT FUN! THE GREAT PART IS THAT WE DID NOT NEED ANY ASSISTANCE THIS TIME AS WE DID WITH CONCEIVING ISABELLE. A FUN SURPRISE! I HAVE BEEN FEELING ICKY SO I KNOW THE BABY IS DOING GREAT. GOD IS GOOD! JUST WANTED TO SHARE!
Wednesday, December 03, 2008
Wednesday, November 26, 2008
Hello from the Vander Veens



We have not disappeared into a black hole! :) I finally have remembered how to post on this again. So sorry about our lack of updates. Since it has been so long, there is so much to share. But I thought I would do some basics first.
We are in our own house again and we are so excited! For those of you who don't know, we sold our house and were living in my (Jen's) parents house. Don't get me wrong, they were awesome. But it is hard to raise your family without your own home. Luckily, my mom and I see eye to eye on almost everything. But I am a typical woman and wanted my own place. So we are now renting a duplex in Hudsonville. It is such a blessing... our whole reason for selling is that we have felt compelled to get completely out of debt. That has been a little challenging because of our real estate business. To spare you the gory details, God moved many mountains and provided in many other ways. We are within 6 months of being completely out of debt. What a relief! We wanted to rent something cheap but nice. God brought us this duplex where everything inside in new, trendy, and spacious... and cheap! We adjusted instantly, even Tori. (An absolute miracle... bless her sensitive heart.) So we are truly doing great.
Tori is in 2nd grade and I am still homeschooling her. This past week, reading finally clicked. She has been able to read but it has been like pulling teeth. I have been very patient (nothing short of a miracle) and haven't pushed her. I knew it would just connect and she would love it. Sure enough, it did. Now she is reading like crazy and LOVES it. Whew! Mommy will admit she was a little nervous. It is a big responsibility to be in charge of your child's education. So I was feeling the pressure. But our philosophy and goal of homeschooling is to develop a passion for learning in our children. So if I had to force feed it, she would of eventually learned to hate it. So God is good! :) She is in gymnastics this year on Pre-team. She is loving it and progressing well. Her first meet in the end of January. Mommy will have to admit that she is secretly hoping she grows out of her love for the sport. It is involves long hours and unfortunately mommy knows what is coming. But if it is her dream, then we will help her every step of the way. I am very proud of her hard work. Plus, she is on a team of 14 girls and I LOVE the social aspect of it for her. However, she has a lot of dreams and passions. So we will see.
Elli is not starting school yet. She turns 5 on December 8. She is counting down the days. The weird thing is that she is already reading. She seriously can sound out many words and read them. I have never done a single structured thing with her but she learns from Tori. Mommy is pretty excited about this! It will make school next year that much easier. She is also in gymnastics and doing great. She is developing into a very independant little girl. I love to watch her. Just today, her & I were talking. I asked her if there was anyone from her gymnastics class she wanted to invite to her birthday party. I specifically asked her if she wanted to invite Jade, a girl she has been in class with for awhile. She said, "Mommy, she doesn't like me." I thought, how strange. So I asked her why she thought that. She said, "Well, she is always telling me, 'Don't touch me!'" I tried super hard not to laugh. You see, Elli has absolutely no personal space. To her, touching is saying I love you. But that is obviously not the case with Jade. :) So I told Elli not everyone liked to cuddle. She was seriously baffled. That is my Elli! She has never met a stranger and love to hug everyone! What a blessing.
Mark & I are doing great. I thuoght I had better tell you quick about the pics I uploaded. The one of the girls in pink is when we went to see High School Musical 3. They are girly girls all the way. The ones of Mark & I are from our Adventure Race. We did our first race which was a dream come true. We did a 6 hour race that combined Trail Running, Mountain Biking, Canoeing, and Orienteering (finding your way in the woods with a compass). We loved and plan to do many more.

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Thankful!!!
Happy Blest Thanksgiving to all!
A special thanks to Stacey for setting up this family site and getting us all connected this way!! I LOVE being able to keep up on it. It has been such a blessing.
Getting to see all my kids (except for Brad and gang) on Thanksgiving. Grampa & Gramma are joining the bunch of us too. I know I will be tired by Monday morning, BUT it will be such a satisfying tired.
Dan & Kim and kids are arriving late this afternoon and the fun begins! Tomorrow we are gathering around 10 and working together to make all the fixings. That way no one needs to stress about getting it all done ahead of time. I do all the shopping and we have the fellowship while we prepare, plus little hands get to help and learn how to roll a pie crust from scratch!! We usually eat around 4.
I am doing 2 turkeys this year because the last time we got together(we only meet every other year) we ate all the turkey at dinner. You have to have leftovers to munch on! Brent volunteered to fry one of them in his turkey fryer so we'll see how that tastes.
The girls and I are going to brave the throngs on Fri to do Christmas shopping, but not the 4AM stuff. Yes, we might miss a few of the deals but we tried that early stuff and found out that MOST of the deals are still there at 9AM and a lot of the people have gone back home to bed!
Blessings to all in so many parts of the world where we live!!
Barbara Grace (I love my name!)
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Monday, November 24, 2008
The Stickney's!!
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Hi there, Scott family here. well here goes, Levi is coming home for christmas and will be here the 17th- the 30th of December. I am of course looking forward to that. Leah is going to Honduras for Christmas to see the fam there, Andres christmas present is already on it's way from grammie and grampie. For those of you who may not know Joel and Megs bought their first house, it's beautiful and they are homeowners now. Also proud "parents" of a black lab girl named Angler she is well behaved and well loved:) Travis, Luke and Paula are all at GVSU working on their degrees. Tashina and I keep in touch via SKYPE we both love it's free and I get to see Andres, he blew kisses and did his horsie thing and we got to watch.... gotta love that!! Work has been busy enough for both John and I for which we are thankful. On opening day John got to enjoy the company of three of the boys and he was pretty happy about that too. Looking forward to the holidays. I get 12 whole days off between christmas and new year's can't wait. That is counting week-ends and yes , I counted :) hope you enjoy your family's this holiday season. God is faithful and I am glad about that. Love to you all. Aunt Ruth
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Crazy!!!
It is too crazy a world whenI have to "see"my grandkids on the computer!!! I haven't been on for a few weeks so it was fun to see the nes stuff. made me cry though cause it truly does seem like fro the fal a nd winter months we see each othe too seldom.
HAPPY THANKSGIVING TO ALL!! We have so much to be thankful for!
Barbara
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Sunday, November 23, 2008
Friday, November 21, 2008
MORE OF THE THELENS
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Monday, November 17, 2008
The Stickney's!!
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Sunday, November 16, 2008
3-2-1 BLAST OFF!!!
Makayla's Tip: "Ya gotta wear your helmet when you go to outerspace Mom!" Well spoken darlin'! =) We love you all...
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Thursday, November 13, 2008
THELENS
hi everyone!! thought i would write something since i get sick of seeing the same ole,same ole!! we have our outdoor woodstove up and running. man , it will be nice not to haave to pay for propane. we are getting wood in a woods right by our house so we dont have to go far. the boys have fun building forts and just being in the woods. we saw a deer last saturday. fun memeories!! we are planning a trip to Cabelas-- for you who dont know what Cabelas is , its ONLY THE WORLDS GREATEST HUNTING AND OUTDOORS STORE EVER!!! Brent and Gavin LOVE it, gavin says caden and evan will love it sooo we are planning a trip! thats what happens when you have a boys!! we are finally feeling better this week. all the boys have been sick for 2 weeks, i am sick of it!! i washed all the blankets in the house yesterday hoping that will help!! who knows if it will but im desperate for healthy kids again! we went to g.h church for halloween to their trunk or treat, then spent the night at poppy and nannas. we had fun only if we kept the ugly masks out of caden and evan sight. their was a guy dressed as a monkey that scared the pants off both of them. caden haas this "thing" about monkeys anyways. sheesh..... gav and caden are sad to put their dirtbikes up for the winter, but now we can get out our "boats" (sleds) as caden calls them, and pull them with the quad! they are excited about that. well, this is about as much time as i have in front of the comptuer. its off to put the kids down for naps and then i will make supper! the life of a happy homemaker!! love to all--- brenda
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Tuesday, November 04, 2008
JUST A FRIENDLY REMINDER TO GET OUT AND VOTE FOR LIFE TODAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Friday, October 31, 2008
Halloween or so much more
Happy Reformation Day!!!
This is for you Grandpa!!
And if you want a little info about reformation day this is very loose history of the day. Have a great day, enjoy the life of those around you, costumed or not.
Ben
"On October 31, 1517, Martin Luther posted a proposal at the doors of a church in Wittenberg, Germany to debate the doctrine and practice of indulgences. This proposal is popularly known as the 95 Theses, which he nailed to the Castle Church doors. This was not an act of defiance or provocation as is sometimes thought. Since the Castle Church faced Wittenberg's main thoroughfare, the church door functioned as a public bulletin board and was therefore the logical place for posting important notices. Also, the theses were written in Latin, the language of the church, and not in the vernacular. Nonetheless, the event created a controversy between Luther and those allied with the Pope over a variety of doctrines and practices. When Luther and his supporters were excommunicated in 1520, the Lutheran tradition was born. This in turn would later ease the creation of the Reformed and Anabaptist traditions as well."
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Sunday, October 26, 2008
Saturday, November 15
Give Grandma a call if you want to make applesauce
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Thursday, October 23, 2008
APPLES
ok, I feel a little bad about adding this to the blog because I don't want anyone to miss the 'blueberry news' :) . . so if you haven't read it, scroll down and take a look. . . . staying on the 'fruit' theme. . . . is there any family that is interested in making applesauce? Grandma already has some apples in storage . . . if you are interested, please call her, we will be peeling away the first part of November, no concrete date yet, you can let her know your availability.
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Tuesday, October 21, 2008
Blueberry On Board
Hey, Hey, Hey Family!!! We know that you all have been patiently waiting (well except you Lindy-your not very patient) for this day to finally come! Kurt and I are expecting our first baby (aka blueberry) at the end of May!!!!! We are so excited! This picture is how we told Mom and Dad! We wrapped up this pumpkin-better known as a Mumkin-and gave it to Kurts Dad for his b-day! He didn't quite get it at first but Kim was sure all over it! She read the Mumkin first and just screamed!
Kurt Here-we aren't going to find out the sex and we are keeping names top secret so don't try and pry them outta us. =-) We really don't care if blueberry is a boy or girl(at wk 7 baby was the size of a blueberry and we didn't want to call "it" "it"...so blueberry has stuck) we just want a healthy baby. I'm really excited but I would be lying if I said that I wasn't a little nervous about this....but we've waited long enough. =-) Lisa is feeling pretty good but she does get random waves of nausea throughout the day and night but has (proudly) never puked!! So prayers are always welcome for a safe and uninteresting delivery and for wisdom as parents. Love you all tons. (I finally feel like I have something interesting to add to the blog vs going to work and going home...=-) )
Kurt, Lisa, and Blueberry!!
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Tuesday, October 14, 2008
Jon & Donna Stellema
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